*sigh*
A friend tries to set me up with his friend and the feedback is that I am apparently too strong/ opinionated/ something along those lines.
Me? Really?
O_o
And all this time I thought that I was a nice girl, but with a point of view on certain matters.
(WHAT'S WRONG WITH HAVING A POINT OF VIEW?)
And this is not first time!
(Well, in another context actually: I knew I would be rejected for a job because the interviewer said at the end, "Wah. You very opinionated, horr" in a really "tsk tsk" tone of voice....)
Am so sick of this nonsense.
Why is that most (Asian) guys I meet cannot accept a woman who has an opinion? This is really upsetting - because it's not like I'm the "in your face"/ brash/ feminist/ grrl power type anyway... (I don't think so anyway).
Can it be that when they say they value intelligence/ personality/ sense of humour in a woman, what they really mean is HOT BODY?
>_<
Frus,
J
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House of Wheat, Chow Kit
16 hours ago
Hey, don't worry about it.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure someday you'll find a great guy that appreciates those qualities in you.
And besides, a woman who has intelligence and a sense of humour/personality is much more interesting than one who has neither.
Bah!!!!
ReplyDeleteHang in there...
Hahahahah! YOU are too opinionated and strong? You're the sweetest thing. Wait til he meets ME. LOL!!!!!
ReplyDeleteLynn
young lady.. ur post sounds SOOOOOOO opiniated! ROFL.. farnee too farnee..!
ReplyDeleteI totally agree, substitute personality for sexy body, substitute sense of humor of sexy body substitute intelligence for sexy body. There now ur getting the hang of it!
Poor u.. it aint u dahleng.. u just meeting all the wrong men. Ok ok, if i see someone worthy will into to you asap.. k?!
hugs
to wil:Thanks.. :)
ReplyDeleteI hope so too... but it's difficult to keep believing.
(Wah. I sounds so jaded!)
to Julian Si:
to anonymous Lyn:Hey! My dear, you are definately strong when it comes to work and activities but what's wrong with that, anyway? *hugs*
(I wish I had the guts to do half the things you've tried)
to Ciki Mei:I'll work on the hot body, while you help me look for someone worthy. Hopefully this double prong tactic will be more effective! Haha.. :)
(*hugs* Thanks babe... Sorry to be such a downer, just one of those times when I'm feeling a bit low)
hot body.. where where?!?!?!
ReplyDelete*ebil*
you have an opinion.. not sure about the strong part.. was the guy a pansy?
to soojc:
ReplyDelete*ignores jibe at non-hotness of body*
:P
Haha... I don't know whether he was a pansy... but they can't all be pansies, right? Or are they?
Same a urbanization any
ReplyDeleteAnd how in that case it is necessary to act?
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ReplyDeleteto anonymous:
ReplyDeleteWell, that and some multivitamins. :)